Dating 2 months havent been to his house
It’s one thing not having time to go out in public as a couple, but the fact that nobody in his life seems to know we’re a couple kind of puts it in a different light. I do really like him, we have a really great time together and he always seems so attentive whenever we can’t physically be together, but maybe I’m just seeing what I want to see? The first issue is a valid one and you have every right to consider whether you’re getting your emotional needs met right now.
I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.I know a man in his position needs an understanding girlfriend who’s not going to make big drama if he has to cancel plans at the last minute, and, because my life is relatively stress-free, I can be pretty flexible (I’m pretty easygoing anyway.)But lately his family have been visiting (they live in another country,) and he’s magically found time to spend first with his parents, and then with his sister. I thought we were working towards something serious, but my confidence has been really shaken. 1) Your boyfriend doesn’t have much time or energy to give to your relationship.I’d hoped to meet his family while they were over, but now I’ve found out that he hasn’t actually told them about me, apart from the fact that he’s ‘with someone.’ I get that things are complicated, and that he has a very shaky relationship with his ex-wife so he’s going to be cautious about letting her know that he has a new girlfriend, and I also get that I don’t get to meet his son until we’re much more established. I’ve asked him for time to talk things through and he’s agreed, but I’m really having to push him to make time for our conversation. 2) Your boyfriend hasn’t fully integrated you into his world.While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.